My vote... Kick H's sorry A$$ out... call OW's H and fill him in, call select family and friends to expose the A... File a separation agreement all at the same time if you are worried about protecting yourself legally and.... wait......
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ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09 Served with D papers 6/6/10 Current
