MLC, H and me

[lalxx]

Hello all,
I have experienced my husband behaving as two children - a 15 year old boy and an 11/12 year old child. He is deep in Replay and I continue a stand of quite hope whilst GAL! It is so hard sometimes but feel I have a growing understanding of his pain.

His OW is an ex from 25 years ago so he is really behaving like the teenager from that crucial time in his life when he stopped growing emotionally (his Mum died when he was 15 and it was handling appallingly badly by his family - his 12 year old sister was sent on a French exchange trip for 2 weeks and not told her Mum had died - she was buried whilst she was away - she still bears the scars today).

I am getting better at thinking "C'mon who wants to live with a 15 year old boy??!!"

My role now is to protect my children from the fallout and I try very hard to move towards a new life for the 3 of us going forward. I can feel I am a different person since this whole sorry mess started.

Thank you for reading

Lalxx