The list....well, lots of it has to go...but it's true according to His Needs/Her Needs that men want their homes to be their safe havens from the world...they want their homes to be a place where they can come home, smell the pleasant aroma of dinner cooking in the oven, partake in conflict free conversation, relax in front of the television, and go to bed and make love...early enough to get up the next morning refreshed and do it all over again... Creating a fair division of labor helps...so talking to him about what chores he's willing to do can help take the burden off of you....mine does primarily all the outside work...I do the inside work...and I garden by choice....but I NEVER mow the lawn, plow the driveway, or haul the garbage away...H does some cooking, as he likes to do this and he will help fold laundry and has been known to scrub a pot or pan now and then.....most of the housework falls on me...but I'm ok with that.... His Needs/Her Needs suggests that you do the things that he wants done the most first...and leave the rest for when you can get to it...ie. if he needs (God forbid) something ironed for work and that will make him happiest...iron it for him....(or buy him permanent press, if you're me..lol)
Just thought you all might find this an interesting additional side commentary to the list......
Oh, yes and if he stays out all night..do what my mom always did...make him a lovely cup of coffee for his hangover...but add SALT not sugar to the coffee...it's sure to wake him up LOLOLOLOLOL
