Yesterday being her first day, she called me 6 times (no I didn't answer each time). Once to tell S8 goodnight, but the rest to talk about her school experience. Then when she got home (FIL house) she sent a text wanting to know if my "heads" were still up. This is at 10:45, she has to get up for work at 5 am. I asked what she had in mind...we sexted for about an hour. It was fun.
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She is being real nice. Maybe because I eased some of her stress, or she's kissing my a$$ for helping her out. Maybe it's legitimate.
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Just like when I stay cool, calm, & confident. She responds to this quite well, it amazes me how I can change her mood buy just being in that state of mind. Several times she has been confrontational, angry, yelling, and I stay c.c.c. Stops her dead in her tracks, she will apologize and correct her behavior.
Let's analyze this Jake..
So.. You ARE getting along great right? She called you SIX times yesterday right? You sexted for an hour and it was fun right? She is being nice and you are being nice right? She responds well when you are cool, calm and collected, correct?
And YET you are worried? You are NOT living in the moment. ENJOY the ride. Live in the moment. Are you addicted to worry?
Learn to live life to the fullest. The only way to do that is to live and stay in the moment. Worry is wasted energy. It is nothing more than a waste of your time. Continue to be cool, calm and collected and continue to be nice.
Remember Jake... The key here is NO PRESSURE... Let her pursue you. Cool calm and collected men enjoy the ride. Sit back and enjoy being nice to each other.
You also need to expand your horizons.... It wouldn't hurt one bit for you to have a couple of "friends" of the female persuasion. You know.. Just like SHE is only friends with these guys she has been with in the past... ;)(you know.. good for the goose is good for the gander?)
Remember... What usually works the best on people is them getting a nice taste of their own medicine now and then..... It is just like the husband who is insanely jealous because he knows subconsciously that he hasn't always been so faithful himself. He thinks that his wife thinks the same about other men as he does other women. The thing that BUGS and bothers him the most is the same thing that he is secretly doing in his own heart.... So, maybe your wife needs a little taste of wondering and having to WORRY about losing YOU to someone else... HMMMMM... you think?
