flo you are right. Maybe I will just go ahead and rape him. Problem is, I have no desire to either...
How did we get from babysteps to raping . Have you and your H even given one another a massage? Just a loving, physical gift with no expectations? A foot rub? I'm not suggesting sex when you are not ready. But you are both ready for something...I saw the body language in the photos. Attachment, connection, love, emotional safety...so much of this happens beyond the realm of words.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.