I had to chuckle at the "stay out all night" line too!! LOL!
But truth be told, there IS something to wifely charms...I have NO idea how much influence this had, but when things were really rough last year, the one thing that we did together was eat home-cooked meals...I even asked CJ what his favourite food was...and it's MY pasta shells...he admitted this rather grudgingly when he was more "gone" than "here".
