Though it's tempting to contact her, I think I'll wait for her to come to me.

The only concern is talking w/ DDs. They often try to get us talking and W frequently jumps into our conversations to "clarify" their stories. They've gotten pretty clever about it.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)