I have exhausted my mind, I need his input as well. We cant be fighting this, each of us laone in his corner, we have to do it as a team.I promise, cross my heart, hope to die, sticj a neddle in my eye, that if/when he dicides to open up, he will get love back, not anger, not hate, just love.
I think you both have exhausted your minds. I hope you can work on babysteps with the physical connection. Progress in that area will provide more reassurance than hundreds of painful, exhausting conversations will. Yes, the conversations will have to happen eventually. But those conversations could differ so much depending on the emotional context. You don't have to just work with words here. Would expressing yourself non-verbally be a 180 for you?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
