H4L, today is NOT the day to talk or think about overnights. If your H brings it up, just say that you can't talk about it today and offer to talk about it in two days.

One day at a time applies more than ever today.

And you haven't let us down. We're here for you, not the other way around.

hugs

me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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