My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

I just was telling my friend that maybe I am more patient than I think.... My H is obviously in some sort of depressive crisis or whatever you want to call it. I am going to stay pretty "dark/dim". That seems to really get his attention and he wonders what I am doing. I am also going to work on my thoughts in a letter to him should he return home. No guarantee that he will, but I need to work on the letter. I need to have a clear understanding of what I expect and to be clear to him that he needs to "win" me back and that actions speak louder than words do.

We'll see. I have a feeling the letter is going to be a little bit of a process and take a bit to write.