Well, let the rollercoaster begin! You should vent it here because it sounds like your H and S are unsympathetic or unavailable at this time and financial stress is REAL and HUGE. And, of course, we all remember what it was CAUSED by, even if the men in your house like to sweep it under the rug. In the future, your H will remember. S is too young to ever comprehend fully now what that kind of financial pressure on top of months of marriage trouble feels like or even is!