Originally Posted By: libbyasking
I do have one worry in that he continues to pay the mortgage and bills for our home. If he withdraws that I am doomed.


Be prepared for that possibility, and I don't mean just being prepared for him to say it. You need to have a plan in place.

He very well could.

That is the thing about a boundary.

You HAVE to follow through. You cannot waiver or go back.

Don't stand still.