Agree wholeheartedly with making sure there is a right of first refusal clause.
Especially if, as I expect, your wife begins to want to slip away from the kids to pursue her interests, I would expect she will do it quietly by trying to ship them off to family and friends. You don't want that happening, especially if they could be with you instead.
I also like the idea of the opportunity to revisit custody amounts should your career schedule change. Always nice to have the option - perhaps you can always do this, I'm not sure.
Will splitting time in the summer be a problem for you? I can't see why you would only get three weeks with them. Seems to me that you deserve equal time and are only NOT getting it during the school year to keep the kids from being in too much upheaval.
I ache for your situation Frank. You know how lucky I was - I wish you could have some of that luck.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
