The only suggestion I would give if to write down your questions and if you really want some answers, make sure you don't ask them when you are having a down day. It is important that the emotions and the imformation do not mix because if you ask when you are down, it is more likely when you hear something that will hurt that you will do something to show the negative emotions more.
I understand wanting to know, but doing it with a counselor present I think is important so you have a mediator in case it gets too tense.
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