My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[awest1217]

I know with my H, when I said I was going to go see a lawyer is when he finally changed his actions (came home, but it was unexpected so I didn't have boundaries ready or willing to stick to them, and so it ended up failing and he moved out on his own again). However, he did start paying child support then and since has been adament that he does not want a divorce.

H seeing you looking into a D may bring him back to his senses a bit. I don't know if he will stop what he is doing, but it will make him think more about what he wants.

On the patience, I think that is the hardest part of this whole process. I am also impatient so sitting and waiting for him to call was hard at first. It gets easier, and you have ups and downs, but I think the best thing I have learned is patience.