gws...i am by far no pro at this, but not that long ago i was in almost the same exact position. feel free to read my situation about my WAW.

you need to get DR if you do not already have it, read it!

I will also throw this question to you....do you suspect any chance of an affair either emotional or physical?

The pro's will be along hang in there.

M-37 W-36
S-11, S-9, D-4
PA exposed 3/13/10
10/19/10 moving on...
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