Exactly! She has nothing to say about it, and she knows it, which is why she said nothing to me. Her ability to show me one thing while strongly feeling another is impressive! I would love for her to say one thing about it to me.
As you say v1olin, this is all an issue of control, and she hates how all this is spinning out of her control. She is now realizing she has no control over me anymore. Last year if we had had a phone argument, within a day I would have been trying to smooth things over. Not any more.
