You agree that you react to things and reaction affects the decision that you currently make? As in your long term plan...now becomes a different plan?
Kinda of sort of, which I am sure is not the right answer. I think Kerry said it best. I am trying to "forecast" the future and really I need to stop this. You are correct in that I do not know what the futures hold. For my own piece of mind I will "plan" worst case scenario this way I am not disappointed if things work out better than expected.
I do not think I change plans per se..I may consider other scenarios but this too I need to stop. Another issue that I need to work on.
My long term plan really amounts to work on my issues, control what I can control i.e. emotions and really learn to live in limbo. Oh...and GAL, etc.
Finally, any db suggestions on how to deal with W? I am detaching and really keep to myself when she is around my answers are short and sweet - no more. I think I know the answer but figured I would ask.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
