The BS in NY is endless. I love this state for many reasons but I hate it for exactly this. Every aspect of getting separated or divorced is pure crap.
Hang in there and don't give up the good fight. I don't mean fight like argue, I mean pursue what you want and need.
Our case went through THREE judges. Every time my exH got pinned in a corner his attny asked for a judge change. My attny and I consented twice and the third time we said no.
