kimmie you are right, she never listened to my concerns and acted like a teenager in heat(right Allan!) - guess i am the more mature one in the wake of this nightmare.
I may have forgotten to mention earlier when i gave some boundries i also told her that she is to go have STD tests done (she asked why...lol really, i wonder) but has agreed to it.
I forwarded the article Allan A gave me about the house and the marraige - that and here reading DR has her talking.
however i am not going to spoon fed her anymore - told her that the library has the book "not just friends" and she needs to go get it....i will not bring anymore to you, time for you to work.
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit