My WH was abandoned by his father - when his mom was pregnant with him. His father remarried and left the country. They somehow reconnected 15 years later. WH said that he can't love him like a father. His mom never got over the anger and bitterness and was depressed all her life, she never remarried, lived alone until she passed away. WH grew-up without any male influence in his life.
So he really fits the MLC profile
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO