You agree that you react to things and reaction affects the decision that you currently make? As in your long term plan...now becomes a different plan?
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For example - getting the kids 50/50 may not actually happen for me. It depends on if she wants to fight it and leave it in the hands of the courts. Since the boys are old enough they will have say in the matter. As I have mentioned they are very close to her and she has manipulated them a bit so I suspect that if this went to court they would allow her to have them most of the time (I'll probably get typical every other weekend type stuff). Since the court usually keeps the kids together that would mean that I would not have my D 50% of the time, which would also suck. This one would be the killer. Finally, if I do not get 50% she can move with the kids whenever she wants. So to summarize the buttons are really just bad news. Oh..by the way - if she get the kids most of the time then the house would stay with her. So everything that I would want is really in the hands of the court and my MLC wife.
If wishes were horses, beggars would ride. If turnips were watches, I would wear one by my side. And if "ifs" and "ands" Were pots and pans, There'd be no work for tinkers hands!
--Mother Goose
Just saying Mr. Pessy McPessimisticson
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