Dr Jack - (once again just kidding....as you can tell I am in a funny mood today )
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What buttons get pushed or things happen to make one day different than the other?
I think the buttons are just normal emotions when I find out some not to good news. For example - getting the kids 50/50 may not actually happen for me. It depends on if she wants to fight it and leave it in the hands of the courts. Since the boys are old enough they will have say in the matter. As I have mentioned they are very close to her and she has manipulated them a bit so I suspect that if this went to court they would allow her to have them most of the time (I'll probably get typical every other weekend type stuff). Since the court usually keeps the kids together that would mean that I would not have my D 50% of the time, which would also suck. This one would be the killer. Finally, if I do not get 50% she can move with the kids whenever she wants. So to summarize the buttons are really just bad news. Oh..by the way - if she get the kids most of the time then the house would stay with her. So everything that I would want is really in the hands of the court and my MLC wife.
With all of this I still try and maintain as positive an outlook as I can.
Thoughts?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
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