Did you tell your wife that you paid down the debt with it? How did she react if so? I am curious.
I really do not speak with W so I did not mention anything. All of our finances are in MS Money so she can see it herself. She has not said anything but continues to take some money out for herself every week. Not sure what she does with it and actually at this point I really do not care. We had about 45K in debt and I paid 15K in one shot. Still have another 30K to go. In June her car is paid off so that free's up 600 a month, which I will apply to debt. From a legal perspective probably a bad move but hell with it. I did what I thought was right.
In terms of why I do not talk to her. We'll it is my detaching. Right now I know that I am still pissed about OM so it is best that I keep to myself. She appears very happy so I would not want to be the one who disturbs her peace. Just trying to be the man that I want to be.
Wild - thank you and np - everyone on these boards needs a 2x4 every now and then. Some are better than other...oppss did I say Jack (just kidding Jack...just kidding :D) It is easier to see some of the issues in someone elses post and point them out, which is all I try to do. I want to make sure that you do not make the same mistakes that I did. Live buddy...live...enjoy yourself. This is some hard shite..but you can do it.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
