What brings them out of the blame stage? My WAS still exhibits a small degree of resentment and anger, but I believe she is digging a little bit for answers. It goes back and forth, like a rubber band, good sometimes, resentful others.
M:39 W:37 Together: 16 years Married: 11 years Bomb: May '09 (ILYBNILWY) Moved out: Nov '09 D: 10, 8, 4