My older sis feels I am not getting enough parenting time. Says I should have 4 weeks instead of 3 in summer. Says I should have a midweek sleepover. Says I should keep kids thru Monday AM. I DO have one of those 'as to the discretion of the parents' thingey in there to leave flexibility. I also know that once signed, you can't change these things.
I can see the extra week in summer. Keeping them thru Monday AM may not be practical now that I am alone and I am a physician, considering I will probably be up and out way before they leave for school, unless I had an au pair.
I also don't want to push this back to trial.
I spoke with my best buddy, 'Anthony', known to people here who have followed this for so long. He is a professional and is part owner of a large famous food company here. He gave me the 'refocus on your life and profession' speech...the 'the kids will grow up and out and you don't want to be 60 and yada yada..and what you all said, that, they will find a way to you as they get older'....
Should I push for this revision prior to signing on Thursday?
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
