Don't try to mind read me...You will never get close to what I am thinking...
I will say this...
Make up your mind - Either you want your marriage to work out so you will do the work necessary to possibly salvage it or you want to be free to "get laid" whenever you want.
IMHO
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~