Originally Posted By: flowmom


I haven't given up on DBing, but I see it more as smoothing things for coparenting and maintaining my dignity than fighting for my M...


That is probably a good approach for you right now Flo. This is a short term goal that is reachable, and will help both you and H feel less pressure about the long term. It is early for you both in this sitch, and taking things one day at a time is probably better for you. ((Flo))