Changes always have some impact, even good changes. When I take my kids out late, when we have fun but change our daily schedule, we suffer the hang over effect the next couple of days, dont you?
We don't take our kids out late ...they just don't seem to have the resilience to cope with it. Maybe maybe it's we parents who don't have the resilience. Anyway, you're right that changes have impacts. It's a good reminder. I am going to give myself some time to evaluate and wait for my gut to tell me what is going on if I can hear it above the din of my anxiety.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
...they just don't seem to have the resilience to cope with it. Maybe maybe it's we parents who don't have the resilience. Anyway, you're right that changes have impacts. It's a good reminder. I am going to give myself some time to evaluate and wait for my gut to tell me what is going on if I can hear it above the din of my anxiety.
