Even though the divorce was done and I didn't want him back, I wasn't making space in my life for anything new. I was physically/mentally holding on to things. Mentally I had put our life together in a box and stored it away.
As for the physical, I gave him a bunch of clothes he had left behind. I got rid of books that were his and of no interest to me. Just the other day I deleted texts that he had sent a year or more ago. those are just a few examples. Just letting go...it really is about setting yourself free.
It is hard. I am not denying that. It happened and sometimes you aren't ever going to get any answers. I had to accept that. I am still a work in progress but really it feels good. I am even more proud of myself for not "destroying" these things and just passing them on. They are bound to be of use to someone out there. Hope that helps some.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
