I had planned on asking him to please NOT have our children around any other woman before a years time
You can ask but you should not expect that he will comply. This is not something that you can control.
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He hasn't brought up the paperwork again at all and I think its only because I had family in town.
Remember that depression is the key to MLC and sometimes the depression will not let them do what you think should be so easy. It does not make them speak the truth or do anything that others would think as "normal". That is why the detach is so critical. Try to stay out of his drama. I know with kids it is hard but don't use the kids as a wedge to try to control your H. That will backfire.
