There will be a time for that....but she already knows you know. So the confrontation has actually already started.
Yep - I know that she knows that I know. I need to keep detaching and GAL'ing. That is all. I now realized that I have been spending probably a little too much time with the kids and need to take a little time for me. Need to get back to the gym (no picture jokes today :)).
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This one is going to kill you...seriously! How does her actions really affect you as an individual? Really think about it....Does those actions really hurt you? Or are they hurting her more?
Will you let some one else control how YOU grow?
Yes it is bothering me - that I will not deny; however, I remain steadfast in my changes - in becoming the man that can look in the mirror. You know...I was very impatient in the past - i actually did not think I could have made it 3 months...well here I am almost 6 months later and I'm still alive. Still hoping.. still working on me. Maybe it is time for another tatoo (just kidding).
Her actions will not control mine. Am I a little sad - yep - but I know that this too will pass. My two steps today are...
1) remain happy and upbeat ALL day 2) try not to stangle her when I get home - this was a JOKE everyone...seriously continue to remain calm and enjoy my D.
Today I have a therapy session and I'm gonna try and go to a dance class today - Salsa...salsa...salsa...
Lost - by the way - I used most of the bonus to pay down the debt. May not be the smart thing to do but it was the "right" thing to do. I can live with myself. I cannot worry about how she "interprets it" that is on her. She is her own person. May God help her find whatever it is that she is looking for.
By the way, what year is the Jeep?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
