now i know....

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so i think i may take this option - have limited contact with OM W as she really does know what i am going through, and if it helps her with her closure on her mariage and divorce procedings then why not help her?

or is that vindictive of me to OM?

Whatever you decide to do, ask yourself if it is best for Gman and his goals. If the answer is 'yes', that's the thing to do.
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