My H is planning on sticking around after my Alanon meeting tonight so that we can talk about somethings re: the paperwork (D)
I had planned on asking him to please NOT have our children around any other woman before a years time as that is what we were both taught at this Divorce Class we are mandated to attend here in our State and I went so that he could file non contested.
Specifically the woman at our children's school that he has done two play dates with and with our children. This woman has a daughter that goes there as well and YES she knows we are still married. This is the one he said he was interested in, but now says he used the wrong word. Said they talked on the phone a few time ( to me there is interest there )
Regardless, I am sure if he isn't seeing her NOW, he will be...at some point and I wanted to ask him not to see her WITH our children anymore that its clearly more than a play date for our kids now....
Basically, any woman though. My children would FREAK out and this would cause some serious issues with my D7.
Am I WRONG in asking these things of him?
Yes, I am asking them for my children. He knows how broken my D7 is right now with regard to his absence etc and was here last night as I mentioned above crying to her about how sorry he was and he was going to make it right...I think in his mind he needs to at least succeed at being a good Daddy...
He hasn't brought up the paperwork again at all and I think its only because I had family in town., I figure if he is gonna file, he is gonna file so why fight it. Its not in my heart to battle it out with him. I don't believe this is what he really wants but I know it's what he thinks he wants and what will make it all better for him.
