Keep taking care of that girl....You are doing an incredible job showing her what a respectful and strong person is and does. I really believe down the road she will be thankful that she has had a rock like you through the storm.
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She just shook her head in amazement.
Sometimes that is all you can do.
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OM + Kids = unacceptable.
Agree
I just don't have any advice. You are not going to be able to control if she introduces the OM to the kids. There is just no way around that at this point. Maybe there is a better way in the situation.
You know that the wife is going to introduce the OM. So instead of focusing your attention on trying to stop the unstoppable....maybe focus on damage control.
Example; As soon as the kids are back home with you...do something special with them. In essence give them a few brief moments were everything isn't focused on the wife and OM...but instead focused purely on things they enjoy.
