Golf, I am sorry I missed your post here. I WISH I could help you--in a lot of respects I have had it SO good through this process. The thing I do know is the old adage that its always darkest before dawn is going to be true for you.
For me life sucked and sucked badly and then one day I just kinda stood up and said "hey what she does is what she does and is a reflection on her and only her." People aren't stupid and even though they won't openly shun my ex (or yours) as I/we would have like to have seen happen eventually people drift away from people with whom they don't share core values.
Golf--I'll track you down on your current threads. I have gotten so muchfrom this board I hope I can give back a little!
I'm not sure i want to be married to you anymore - 8-30-09 ILYBINILWY = 9-4-09 Busted her on a date 9-19-09 Separation - 9-21-09 Divorce - 10-9-09 S15 S13 S10 M - 18 Years
