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I want to ask her if dating is an option for us


IMO asking this question comes off as needy. I would not broach the question. Do you think you are really ready to handle if she says sure why not i'd like to date quite a few people. Think dude - think.

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Honestly I am realizing that she is wanting the life she missed because she got pregnant so young (20).


Sounds like you are justifing her actions. You may need to do this for yourself but realize she controls her own actions as you control yours.

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And hopefully will end up with us becoming better friends and then us getting back together.


Keep your expectations low that is not to say that thier is no hope but work on yourself - find out who you are. What are you likes and dislike outside of your M. This is where you energy should be focused - not on her right now. The time MAY come when you can focus on her right now focus on YOU.

God Bless
Eric


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