FIB, I think you will get used to the "bad" routine. All 3 of you. You will find ways to compensate for the missed hours, you will continue to be the best dad they could have. I am not a dad, but I've watched my kis with their dad. He has been good to them lathough he had even less time than what you will be getting. They love him dearly, they looked up to him, they felt close to him. The connection with your kids is strong and will get stronger. K
