Lotus,

I tend to agree with you, up to a point. I think, and this is just my opinion, that by the time most people end up on this website, their marriages are past the point where some of the "gentler" methods of Divorce Busting are effective. Therefore, most of the advice is geared towards GAL, detaching, and LRT. And most of the situations here involve infidelity.

In my sitch, I was able to use DB once towards reconcilation, and once just to maintain my sanity.

As always, people have to live their own lives with the choices they make.


Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.