flowmom | need to commit to myself

[Cautious]

flow, you're a strong woman. You will ultimately decide what is right for you. I know that I suffered through this whole process, mostly because I was getting the mixed signals from ExCautious... then D-day was like just an errand we had to run together.

Everything seemed scary to me until I experienced it. Now I'm pretty sure I can get through (nearly) anything. I just had to decide definitely - unwaveringly - what my core values are. Then I had to act them out, no matter how hard it was. It was easier once I believed it was the right thing to do.

If the overnights are tough, try it out a couple of weeks (just like any new DB strategy) and if you still have concerns, ask H if you can talk openly about those concerns. If it turns into an argument, you can always walk away and reconvene. Don't start a tug of war if you don't have to.

Just my opinion. (((flowmom)))