The more they spend, the less stuff you need to bring over there. Don't sweat it. There may be a guilt issue involved in all of this spending. My XW sure seems to spend alot of money on vacations etc. XW yesterday mentionned that she was low on cash and did not purchase a driver ($300). Yet she can go to Vegas for 4 days and 2 weeks in FLA. etc etc. Meanwhile, I am putting money away for University....I doubt she is.....so, I do not let it get to me at all. My D once said to me that it really does not matter where she goes but more who she is with. I think I will take K's suggestion and plan some short trips .... perhaps you should as well.
