Please I need some advice here.

Two days ago my H informed our Ds that when he and ow go on vacation that they were going to stop by to visit our grandkids. He will be introducing ow to the grandchildren.

Today H calls up and asks if S26 is still up (3rd shifter) because he forgot to tell him what they wanted to eat at a retirement dinner they were going to. (H and S26 work at the same place. I used to work there too, that's where I met H).

I don't know if H is informing me on purpose that he's going to be introducing ow to family and friends, but I can't take it and would like to ask him to stop letting me know these things.

Should I ask him politely to stop it or let it go? It hurts so bad.