Okay, I'm joining the chorus of "you did the right thing" here, Zoo.
He asked...you told him...perfect communication. It's the kind of thing CJ would just LOVE.
Sure he's bought spontaneous gifts (an antique pin for our one month anniversary...of dating!!!) and great cards...but that was AGES ago (flowers not withstanding).
So, yeah, it would be IDEAL if they just figured out what would make us happy and bought/did it...but this is the REAL world and it doesn't always happen that way!!!