Trixi,
from one insane person to another: if you love him, be smart about it. About everything. Think outside of the box, stop expecting him to do things as you think he should be, do NOT allow him to rule your moods, set the pace exactly as DOMr suggested, treat him with compassion, be positive, what you focus on expands, remember...?
(need to print that out for myself-lol)
K


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009