Dont say that, I agree with Hope4Love. My H was happily living "one of the strogest loves of his life" with a desperate blond that was determined to have him, deep in fog and for a few months (note=the ones he STILL lived with us) completely detached from me. Most of the people here, will not get to piecing. It's a fact. In some cases, I can tell you who will not, but I cant tell you for sure who will. I think it is still too early to sense what's going on with your H. I may have missed things about your past together. I still think there is a distraction involved, not necessarily a PA but something, something is off and I cant put my finger on it.
If the stories here cleared in 2-3 months this forum would be "dead". It takes a lot of time. K