I agree -- maintain the boundary. She knew exactly what she was doing. Your son didn't ask for the toy or anything, did he? It's not as if you really care much about her, but you did ask for the boundary and only you can remove it, IMHO.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
