Technically speaking, Michele breaks DBing down into 4 stages. And the 4th stage is recommitment.
Many people renew their vows. Take a great romantic second honeymoon. Whatever works for the couple.
I understand about getting things out in the open. I understand about drawing the lines.
I'm more worried about questions that compare Maria to the OW, that compound her H's guilt, that will make him feel like he can never fix it and withdraw.
First of all agreed with above statement. IF he withdraws again, this will be very painful for you Maria.
Secondly, sorry = tiny hijack. Michelle, what are the other three stages MWD talks about? thx
