Awoken, it's sobering to see what you've had to adapt to, not only as a husband dealing with your W's problems, but also in your sitch since the bomb.
Gardener shared a book with me that I'm starting to read. It's hard to read. But it does deal with how being abandoned affects us and how we bring that - or not - into our future:
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
