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[flowmom]

I second everything that rr wrote!! H4L, it's understandable that you are feeling upset...of course you are! This is about grieving and acceptance, and no interaction with your H is going to fix that for you. I think it's a blessing that your H wasn't around tonight, and if he did avoid seeing you because of the bombaversary, then I give him credit for some self care and avoiding a situation where the hurt was likely to come out in ways that are not helpful.

Let the tears flow, honey. And when you wake up tomorrow remember the cliche that it's the first day of the rest of your life. The past is the past and there's still pain and hurt in the present, but the present is all we have.

(((H4L)))