But if you do want to explain to him that you need peace to be left alone, I advise that it be short- 4-5 sentences long. And kind, not bossy. ONLY because he will actually be receptive to the email and not get so angry that he will not "comprehend" it Do you know what I mean?
No contact is done best, IMO, if there is an explanation to the WAS about why you are doing it. Otherwise it comes across as a childish game.
Thanks NM - was writing the other post when I saw your latest. Very good advice as per usual, and I agree that any silence on my part looks like petulance or a tantrum of sorts. I think I can tone this email down further. Let me give it another try.
You mean Puppy or Penny?
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369